How can I LOVE more should be your thinking every day. If you do this, you will be affecting a chain reaction  that will REVOLUTIONIZE the world. We are all capable of this. We need to be more selfless, not selfish for our world to grow and be the happy place that it's supposed to be. Harmony is the natural state of affairs. In order for this to appear as normal we need to think differently which corresponds to acting in a different manner. How can I be more kind to others needs to be our motto. Seeing the good in others will help you and them. What you do and say all day long affects yourself and the other person. Its a ripple affect. Smiles will and do uplift. Magnify the good and  leave the rest. Be cheerful even if you have to fake it at first. It will get easier and it IS easier to be happy. You need to argue for it at times and maybe vehemently. Start focusing on being greatful no matter what.
We all have challenges in different ways every day, every hour. But, if we shift our focus on how we can make someone's day instead of destroying their day or not caring about how you affect that other person standing in front of you, we will change the world for good. Each and every one of is important to the whole. We are all one.
We come from the same place. We are all brothers and sisters. Take care of each other, NOW. We are mostly focused on the past and future, that we miss out on the present and making the most of it.
All you have is right now. On Valentine's Day, why don't we see how loving we can be towards others and stop thinking about whether you are single or married..how your relationship is going or not going and see that there are so many people who feel unloved and unappreciated and do something nice for them...and then cultivate that into an everyday deed.